About your host...
Photo taken June 2020
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May 5th 2020
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Ambiance
A man of many facets
striving to make you feel the best you can feel...
striving to make you feel the best you can feel...
The intuitive healer...
I am the intuitive Healer.
The eternal optimist, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better.
I tend to “feel” more then I understand. My faith is in the power of good over evil, positive energy over negative. I’m the spiritual healer, not the religious kind…
The eternal optimist, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better.
I tend to “feel” more then I understand. My faith is in the power of good over evil, positive energy over negative. I’m the spiritual healer, not the religious kind…
Welcome to my place.
As you come through my door, please leave your masks behind and be yourself, be real, be authentic and I will join you there.
Life is not about finding yourself
Life is about creating and recreating yourself
Create a life you love
Love the life you live
Live today as if it were your last
Right here and right now is where and when you want to be present
Because this moment will never repeat itself
Who I am: In my own words.
I got started into this project with the desire to help women following my own personal recovery from the trauma of sexual abuse. It may seem like an unconventional way to those who have never experienced such sexual abuse, but I am only concerned with the positive effect and outcome. I know from personal experience that my approach does work for those who are ready to move on from being a victim and find freedom from the chains of regrets and resentments. My intentions are pure and my desires are noble. I feel I went through the experiences that I did only to bring me to this place for the purpose of helping women get passed a trauma I know all too well. I know I make a positive difference in the lives of those who seeks such healing. Sexual trauma are rooted in deeply seated negative memories which in turn produce negative energy triggered by some form of sexual interaction. The only way to effectively turn such negative sexual energy into positive is through positive sexual interaction which turns negative energies into positive and rewire those trigger in such a way that positive sexual energy comes naturally. I always had an interest in human interactions and experience. One of my natural abilities is to "feel" people. It is a sensitivity that I have been able to refine over the years. When I look back at my upbringing and how I became the man that I am today, it's interesting to think that out of a stolen innocence in childhood came a positive aspect of my personality and the "gifts" I feel I was blessed with. I believe that we all have a bit of both gender's influence in our lives and I feel I was gifted with a positive influx of female energy which gives me the ability to understand how women feel hereby making women feel comfortable in my presence. I am not here to try and tell anyone that I am "god's gift to women" I'm not. But I do feel that I was given the gifts of understanding, compassion and a loving disposition. I was told that I make people feel comfortable and I tend to "read" people well. I am a caring, loving and dependable man who's motivations for what I offer are pure and noble.
How did I get here and do what I do?
(My own journey because I believe in transparency)
(Please note: some details may be disturbing to some, readers discretion is advised)
I think it may be important/interesting for you to know how I came to a place where I would offer such services and to know the history of my own journey. This is a short but descriptive account of the important points of this journey:
I was born and raised in Montreal Quebec the 12th child of a family of 13. Raised in a typical French Canadian catholic family where fathers work long hours and moms stayed home and raised the kids the best she can.
I always had a sensitivity and awareness for my own body and my environment. I always had an inquisitive nature and curiosity. When a man approached me one day when I was playing in a park by myself when I was 7 or 8 years old, it was this curiosity that caused me to follow him to his home to see his "toys" as he put it.
There is no need to go into the details of what took place once we where alone, suffice to say that I was sexually assaulted by not only one but 2 grown men. One of these men was a police officer working with "aide a la jeunesse" or youth services... This same man was also providing other adults pedophiles with children to have sex with and I soon became one of their "favourite" boy.
Some may be surprised by this, but the pedophiles who abused children are not only men. There was couples and even single older women who loved having "little boys" as sex toys. I learned how to please women from older women.
This went on for many years, on an off in very discreet settings and private homes as well as larger venues mostly at cabins in the country and the suburbs. At age 14 my choices took a turn for the worst and landed me in institution for young delinquent until I turned 18. I then left Montreal and came to BC to start a new life for myself.
Away from the madness and the abuse, I lived what looked like a normal life and eventually got married and had 3 children of my own. Later on in life I met a very special woman (After I separated and eventually divorced) who was instrumental in my healing from the life I had never really dealt with before. I went through a series of courses and seminars including Landmark Education which was a turning point to my understanding of myself and eventual complete healing. It was at one of those seminar that I met a young woman who had been gang raped and because of post traumatic stress caused by the event, was unable to enjoy her own body and intimacy. She approached me after I had shared my own story seeking help. I had always been interested in doing massage and had begun to learn about Tantra. I agreed to help this woman on a one on one basis where I would give her relaxing massages starting with simple hands and feet massage to gradually move on to more encompassing session until we got to a place where she began to enjoy being touched and pleasured again. She introduced me to some of her friends she had met at meetings for survivors of sexual abuse and slowly we repeated a similar process which brought healing to them as well. I had never even consider the possibility of doing such healing massages prior to this and it actually was these ladies who suggested that I should consider helping others as they felt I had a gift for healing. Not long after this I created this website and began the journey as a Tantra massage provider and healing medium. To this day, what keeps me going is the idea that I can bring such healing to women who needs it. Sexual abuse and sexual disfunction takes different forms and is not always as black and white as rape is. Over the years I have developed a fusion of massage techniques that brings such healing. I use the term medium because I feel that what I bring out is what is already within you to heal. Our body respond to what our minds and our spirits command. What I bring out is that energy, that positive energy that has been suppressed for a number of reasons and let it come out in a natural and holistic way. No need for drugs here.... your body already has exactly the right "drug" for you... it is a drug that was specifically produce just for you by your own brain which produce the exact chemistry your body and your mind needs and once you learn how to let it flow freely, you will find freedom from the chains that abuse wrapped around you. Whether you are seeking healing from such abuse or just need to relax at a deeper level and let the stress that life brings escape, you are in good hands.
I think it may be important/interesting for you to know how I came to a place where I would offer such services and to know the history of my own journey. This is a short but descriptive account of the important points of this journey:
I was born and raised in Montreal Quebec the 12th child of a family of 13. Raised in a typical French Canadian catholic family where fathers work long hours and moms stayed home and raised the kids the best she can.
I always had a sensitivity and awareness for my own body and my environment. I always had an inquisitive nature and curiosity. When a man approached me one day when I was playing in a park by myself when I was 7 or 8 years old, it was this curiosity that caused me to follow him to his home to see his "toys" as he put it.
There is no need to go into the details of what took place once we where alone, suffice to say that I was sexually assaulted by not only one but 2 grown men. One of these men was a police officer working with "aide a la jeunesse" or youth services... This same man was also providing other adults pedophiles with children to have sex with and I soon became one of their "favourite" boy.
Some may be surprised by this, but the pedophiles who abused children are not only men. There was couples and even single older women who loved having "little boys" as sex toys. I learned how to please women from older women.
This went on for many years, on an off in very discreet settings and private homes as well as larger venues mostly at cabins in the country and the suburbs. At age 14 my choices took a turn for the worst and landed me in institution for young delinquent until I turned 18. I then left Montreal and came to BC to start a new life for myself.
Away from the madness and the abuse, I lived what looked like a normal life and eventually got married and had 3 children of my own. Later on in life I met a very special woman (After I separated and eventually divorced) who was instrumental in my healing from the life I had never really dealt with before. I went through a series of courses and seminars including Landmark Education which was a turning point to my understanding of myself and eventual complete healing. It was at one of those seminar that I met a young woman who had been gang raped and because of post traumatic stress caused by the event, was unable to enjoy her own body and intimacy. She approached me after I had shared my own story seeking help. I had always been interested in doing massage and had begun to learn about Tantra. I agreed to help this woman on a one on one basis where I would give her relaxing massages starting with simple hands and feet massage to gradually move on to more encompassing session until we got to a place where she began to enjoy being touched and pleasured again. She introduced me to some of her friends she had met at meetings for survivors of sexual abuse and slowly we repeated a similar process which brought healing to them as well. I had never even consider the possibility of doing such healing massages prior to this and it actually was these ladies who suggested that I should consider helping others as they felt I had a gift for healing. Not long after this I created this website and began the journey as a Tantra massage provider and healing medium. To this day, what keeps me going is the idea that I can bring such healing to women who needs it. Sexual abuse and sexual disfunction takes different forms and is not always as black and white as rape is. Over the years I have developed a fusion of massage techniques that brings such healing. I use the term medium because I feel that what I bring out is what is already within you to heal. Our body respond to what our minds and our spirits command. What I bring out is that energy, that positive energy that has been suppressed for a number of reasons and let it come out in a natural and holistic way. No need for drugs here.... your body already has exactly the right "drug" for you... it is a drug that was specifically produce just for you by your own brain which produce the exact chemistry your body and your mind needs and once you learn how to let it flow freely, you will find freedom from the chains that abuse wrapped around you. Whether you are seeking healing from such abuse or just need to relax at a deeper level and let the stress that life brings escape, you are in good hands.
A place for women around Vancouver and around the world to get the massage they really want...
There are plenty of options for men to go to and get the massage they seek. Some are classier then others. But what about women who are looking for a massage that that brings healing in this broken world? A massage that can go beyond the realms of what a RMT (Registered Massage Therapist) can do? A place for her to allow her mind to rest at peace knowing that there are no expectation put on her? This is exactly the niche I am here for. I am a socially well adjusted, safe to be with, clean and educated man who provide exactly the kind of approach a woman look for in a respectable environment. I am trained in the application of sensual Tantra massage using hot oil (Only pure unscented coconut oil) and hot stones in a very Zen peaceful studio.
I take care of my health and the health of my clients who trust me with their needs and desires while leaving them with nothing but beautiful memories to come back to over and over again. My session are focussed on the sensual healing and pleasurable element, the relaxation, the peace and loving energy that will engulf you while I provide you with the outlet to have your natural needs and desires being fulfilled.
You will leave feeling refreshed, satisfied and energized.
I take care of my health and the health of my clients who trust me with their needs and desires while leaving them with nothing but beautiful memories to come back to over and over again. My session are focussed on the sensual healing and pleasurable element, the relaxation, the peace and loving energy that will engulf you while I provide you with the outlet to have your natural needs and desires being fulfilled.
You will leave feeling refreshed, satisfied and energized.
I am a man who walks in peace,
I believe in love and forgiveness,
I am deeply spiritual but not religious.
I understand the need for everyone to feel accepted exactly as they are,
I understand and relate to everyone's need to be touched lovingly.
Being touched not only in the physical sense, but emotionally and spiritually as well.
My approach to massage comes from a deep sense of my own spirituality and sensuality.
I have a deep love and respect for myself and the world around me.
I have an innate ability to empathize with those around me,
and can sense pleasure, joy or sadness that surrounds me.
Because of this,
I am adaptable and tend to make everyone feel comfortable wherever they are at in their lives.
I am a man of many facets, but most of all,
I am a loving and caring individual who strives to make you feel your best.
Let the energy flow....
Nature... my quiet place, my refuge... where I go to get grounded!
“Pleasure is always derived from something outside you, whereas joy arises from within.”
― Eckhart Tolle
“We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.”
― Dalai Lama XIV
“Enlightenment is not a goal to be attained, it is a state-of-being to be regained.”
― Kim Chestney, The Psychic Workshop: A Complete Program for Fulfilling Your Spiritual Potential
― Eckhart Tolle
“We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.”
― Dalai Lama XIV
“Enlightenment is not a goal to be attained, it is a state-of-being to be regained.”
― Kim Chestney, The Psychic Workshop: A Complete Program for Fulfilling Your Spiritual Potential
