Your private Tantra massage studio specializing in women eroticism and sensuality.
VANCOUVER TRANQUILITY SPA
Mature audience only.
A healthy, well balanced sexuality is your fountain of youth. Create and maintain this youthful exuberance for yourself.
Before your spirit took presence in your body, you were a pure non-physical spiritual being.
It is sexual energy that made it possible to transform yourself from a spiritual being into having a human form.
Just as sexual energy merged your spirit with the physical body, sexual activation can provides profound spiritual experiences.
By consciously integrating your spiritual form with your sexual body, you expand your physical and emotional/mental balance within and with the world around you. That's how we become and remain "complete".
Radiance has nothing to do with chronological age. The more light you emanate, the more youthfulness you radiate.
Through tantra, we are all unique individual becoming one light, creating and radiating positive life giving energy .
As we navigate our ways through this journey of life, we all start out pure and unblemished. But as we go through life, we all experience instance that causes us to see that this world is not the perfect place we imagined as little kids. Most of us experience traumatic events that gets in our way of truly enjoying life fully. Regrets and resentments sets in and we loose ourselves in internal conflicts and turmoils. From our relationships with our parents, siblings, teachers or anyone we cross path with in our lives and we develop patterns of self defence to protect ourselves from the pain we suffered. These patterns are often self destructive and limit our ability to enjoy life fully, particularly our sexuality which is vital to our happiness. I would like to introduce you to a form of Tantric experience that can change all of that. I would like to bring peace and tranquility in the form of a positive, erotic sensual, sexual energy that will bring a clarity of mind that will stay with you and make you feel complete again.
About Covid-19...Update
I was fully vaccinated (2 doses plus booster) and would like to encourage you to get vaccinated as well. I am taking appointments again and counting on everyone's integrity to ensure we are all as safe as possible. My full time occupation as a commercial scuba diver is keeping me safer as far as Covid goes since I spend so much time underwater and away from anyone, I breath filtered, oxygen enriched air while working and take most of my payment through email money transfer. I do understand the need to be touched and cared for, which is probably even more important now than ever. We all need to take our minds off of all the doom and gloom and relax a little. Having a safe outlet to enjoy a sexually satisfying and fullfilling experience should not be overlooked. If you have such needs to relax, I understand. I believe that social distancing at this time is everyone responsibility and we should all take precautions but I also think that Tantra is conductive to a healthy living and the benefits are conductive to a better state of mind which promote better health in general.
To book an appointment please tell me about you and your wishes, needs and desires. I have always counted on people's integrity and honesty in regard to your health and it is even more important now that you ensure that you are healthy in every ways before booking an appointment. Be safe out there, this will come to an end soon.
IMPORTANT NOTE:
Tantra being what it is, there has to be a certain level of confidence, trust and integrity between us. I would not and I won't take appointements if there is the slightest doubt in my mind about my own health, I trust you to be likewise responsible. My studio is in a private residence. I do not "advertise" my services outside of this personal website. I strongly believe that what is meant to be will be and I believe that providing such healing shouldn't be "commercialized". Of course we all need to generate revenues to survive and the fees I post are meant to cover my time with you rather than what we do together. It is my belief that if you found me here it is because you specifically look up a need for your life and my showing up here is just the result of the universe bringing us in touch together because it is meant to be.
There are no street signage here. It is meant to be very private and discrete. I have created a very Zen environment in my studio. It is nice and warm, cozy and generates an ambiance of calm and tranquility. You will always be the only person present here with me. I realize that the term "Spa" may lead to other expectations but there are no other services offered such as sauna, manicure and pedicure or anything like that. My studio is located in a typically modest Burnaby home in a residential area and I keep my practice quiet and on the "down low" so to speak so my friends and neighbours do not know what I do in my home. This is all meant to make you feel more secure and our discretion and privacy is assured.
Serge
There is no time like the present to enjoy life fully...
Having lost my son to an avalanche in Alaska at the age of 25, (The movie The Alpinist on Amazon Prime is all about him) I know first hand the emptiness one feels when there is something missing in our life. Waiting for "later" before making the changes we need to make to enjoy our life is taking that life for granted when in fact there never was any guarantee that "later" will ever be.
My reasons for offering such healing Tantra sessions is to assist those who desire to experience and enjoy Tantra for what it brings: A place where you can be real to yourself and enjoy the healing, fulfilling and rejuvenating power of Tantra.
I would like to encourage all of us not to take life and our loved one for granted. What you want to do today, do it now. Tell those you love how you feel and don't ever let the sun go down on an unresolved quarrel....
Has the time come for you to channel your energy towards the healing and nurturing aspect Tantra brings? Then you've come to the right place. Let’s make today the day when it all comes together for good and look toward a bright new future... clearly and open minded.
Serge
My reasons for offering such healing Tantra sessions is to assist those who desire to experience and enjoy Tantra for what it brings: A place where you can be real to yourself and enjoy the healing, fulfilling and rejuvenating power of Tantra.
I would like to encourage all of us not to take life and our loved one for granted. What you want to do today, do it now. Tell those you love how you feel and don't ever let the sun go down on an unresolved quarrel....
Has the time come for you to channel your energy towards the healing and nurturing aspect Tantra brings? Then you've come to the right place. Let’s make today the day when it all comes together for good and look toward a bright new future... clearly and open minded.
Serge
Would you consider creating a unique Tantra session with me?
The search is ongoing as I am still looking for a sexy lady to model a Tantra session and/or photos with me...I am getting more demands for live and videos presentations. This could be a nice passive income opportunity for the right person. Curious? Check it out!
My name is Serge,
I am a male Tantra massage provider. I specializes in women body work, sensuality and Tantric eroticism. I will look after you in such a way as to leave you touched by the level of care and attention I devote to your wellbeing.
I provide relaxing, sensual massage for women in the Vancouver (BC) area with a Tantra based approach.
I have always had a passion for healing, awakening the consciousness and enlightenment through working through positive sexual energy.
My intentions are to return sexuality to its proper place, reclaiming the awesome power of love and positive sexual energy.
Tantric sexuality is an ancient Eastern spiritual practice. Like yoga or Zen, it is practiced for the purpose of enlightenment and the philosophy transcends the bedroom into all aspects of life. Tantra teach that lovemaking, when entered into with awareness, is a gateway to both sexual and spiritual transcendence. In the Tantric tradition, intercourse and orgasm combine to produce spiritual awareness at its peak. The moment when Shiva--male energy--and Shakti--female energy--come into a sexual union is believed to be the highest point of enlightenment. This is not to say that because you come for a sensual Tantra based massage that this level sexuality is required, but it is available.
Tantric sex is a deeply spiritual, meditative, spontaneous, and intimate form of communication. Tantra is said to teach participants how to prolong the act of pleasuring each other through channeling, rather than dissipating, potent orgasmic energies. In my practice, you have the options of simply enjoying receiving what I bring or take on a more participatory role if you get to a place where this is the course your spirit leads you into in the moment. These channeled energies flow throughout the body, raising the level of sexual consciousness. There is no goal in Tantric sex; the participant aims only to increase bodily awareness and to be spiritually present in a perfect and harmonious union with their partner. Tantra is not concerned with using one's partner for sexual gratification. Instead, Tantric partners provide each other with vital energies that continue to build even after the session is completed.
We are all human and we are born with 5 basic senses: Touch and being touched are just as important to our soul as food and water is to our bodies. In order to feel and be complete we need to enjoy all of our senses. i am here to bring it all together.
Contrary to an "escort" services which ultimately deplete the energy of both participant what I offer is a Tantra based massage experience because I believe in the beautiful, positive energy it brings to those who seeks its benefits for their life. Bringing peace and calm into your life brings the equivalent into mine as well. It is a win-win situation that builds both of us.
We should all spread more love and acceptance and less hatred and judgements.
_______________________
See the page About me for more informations about myself.
What others shared about me:
"Serge is a gentleman. He has a beautiful mind and a generous heart. He is amazing in his ability to make people smile. He is like no others. He is ever willing to help and support anyone who needs it. He is kind and compassionate." Jen, Vancouver BC
"Thanks again for last night Serge. For being patient and kind and allowing me to be where I was in the moment. Not to mention that the massage was amazing and I have never felt anyone with such amazing skills around my Yoni. Your soft but firm touch was perfect and I literally can't stop thinking about it."
C.L Burnaby BC
"My time with Serge, was healing, rejuvenating and beautiful. I am finding a part of myself I never knew existed. A sensual, strong, and happy woman.
His touch is kind respectful and exactly what you need. With Serge anything you need is possible. He is truly a kind selfless lover."
B... Vancouver BC
More testimonial here.
I am a male Tantra massage provider. I specializes in women body work, sensuality and Tantric eroticism. I will look after you in such a way as to leave you touched by the level of care and attention I devote to your wellbeing.
I provide relaxing, sensual massage for women in the Vancouver (BC) area with a Tantra based approach.
I have always had a passion for healing, awakening the consciousness and enlightenment through working through positive sexual energy.
My intentions are to return sexuality to its proper place, reclaiming the awesome power of love and positive sexual energy.
Tantric sexuality is an ancient Eastern spiritual practice. Like yoga or Zen, it is practiced for the purpose of enlightenment and the philosophy transcends the bedroom into all aspects of life. Tantra teach that lovemaking, when entered into with awareness, is a gateway to both sexual and spiritual transcendence. In the Tantric tradition, intercourse and orgasm combine to produce spiritual awareness at its peak. The moment when Shiva--male energy--and Shakti--female energy--come into a sexual union is believed to be the highest point of enlightenment. This is not to say that because you come for a sensual Tantra based massage that this level sexuality is required, but it is available.
Tantric sex is a deeply spiritual, meditative, spontaneous, and intimate form of communication. Tantra is said to teach participants how to prolong the act of pleasuring each other through channeling, rather than dissipating, potent orgasmic energies. In my practice, you have the options of simply enjoying receiving what I bring or take on a more participatory role if you get to a place where this is the course your spirit leads you into in the moment. These channeled energies flow throughout the body, raising the level of sexual consciousness. There is no goal in Tantric sex; the participant aims only to increase bodily awareness and to be spiritually present in a perfect and harmonious union with their partner. Tantra is not concerned with using one's partner for sexual gratification. Instead, Tantric partners provide each other with vital energies that continue to build even after the session is completed.
We are all human and we are born with 5 basic senses: Touch and being touched are just as important to our soul as food and water is to our bodies. In order to feel and be complete we need to enjoy all of our senses. i am here to bring it all together.
Contrary to an "escort" services which ultimately deplete the energy of both participant what I offer is a Tantra based massage experience because I believe in the beautiful, positive energy it brings to those who seeks its benefits for their life. Bringing peace and calm into your life brings the equivalent into mine as well. It is a win-win situation that builds both of us.
We should all spread more love and acceptance and less hatred and judgements.
_______________________
See the page About me for more informations about myself.
What others shared about me:
"Serge is a gentleman. He has a beautiful mind and a generous heart. He is amazing in his ability to make people smile. He is like no others. He is ever willing to help and support anyone who needs it. He is kind and compassionate." Jen, Vancouver BC
"Thanks again for last night Serge. For being patient and kind and allowing me to be where I was in the moment. Not to mention that the massage was amazing and I have never felt anyone with such amazing skills around my Yoni. Your soft but firm touch was perfect and I literally can't stop thinking about it."
C.L Burnaby BC
"My time with Serge, was healing, rejuvenating and beautiful. I am finding a part of myself I never knew existed. A sensual, strong, and happy woman.
His touch is kind respectful and exactly what you need. With Serge anything you need is possible. He is truly a kind selfless lover."
B... Vancouver BC
More testimonial here.
Pictures of location
I like changes... things may be arranged slightly differently than those pictures but you get the general idea... I like to change things around every now and then just for a change.
You will find easy, free parking on the street in front of my studio.
You will find easy, free parking on the street in front of my studio.
About love, lust, understanding and monogamy...
I was married to the same woman and faithful for 25 years and had 3 children with this woman I loved very much. During all those years we had our ups and downs just like all couples but made it work. During all those years, I have to admit that I often had desires to enjoy being with someone else for sex. It's not that I loved my wife less or find her less attractive. But we human are visual people. We get turned on by visual stimulation and I don't believe we were ever meant to be monogamous. There are different species in the animal kingdom who are monogamous and once they form a couple, they are together for life and once one dies, the other follows shortly thereafter... but that is not the case for us human.
Not only are we visual, but we are also spiritual, social and emotional beings. We all need to socialize, meet other people, make friends and generally enjoy meeting new people. We find pleasures in discovering someone new, be it physically emotionally or otherwise. It is normal to feel this way, someone intent on connecting with us will get our chemistry going and we all have such chemistry because we are meant to enjoy it. Those who report having had an extramarital relationship say it was with a close friend, co-worker or long-term acquaintance; these tend not to be random strangers but people who brings a certain "something" that we need in that moment... whatever that "something" is.
What’s more, an act of infidelity is often understood as the “dealbreaker” in relationships. And few people are abhorred more than those known to have “cheated.” Movies, songs and literature are replete with stories depicting the appalling retribution believed owed to those who stray.
Despite all this, studies show that most people have in fact engaged in some type of infidelity in the past or have experienced a partner’s infidelity.
The question arises then: Is it time to ditch, or rethink, monogamy as a standard?
Optimistic expectations
Research shows that most people both expect romantic and sexual exclusivity to be in place very early in their relationships and that they denounce infidelity.
Is jealousy and suspicion undermining your monogamous relationship? Or is jealousy and suspicions a sign of insecurity? Despite strong universal disapproval of infidelity, and despite optimistic expectations, studies show that infidelity remains, year after year, the primary cause of relationship break-ups and divorce.
Now, if you factor in the stress, distrust and discord that even the thought of infidelity causes to those relationships it does not destroy, you begin to understand the weight of its consequences.
Fantasizing about a different lover?
Is monogamy reasonable? Can we ever reconcile the improbability of spending a lifetime (also known as many years) with a partner without ever being drawn to another?
Can we admit that our partners might not meet all of our needs at all times? That we could experience attraction to another without a complete surrender of our rights to a loving and respectful relationship or a wish to abandon our lives to race off with the other person?
These questions are more poignant in light of research indicating that intimate relationships are becoming less rewarding over time even as our expectations of what they should deliver steadily increase.
In most Western countries, belief in the importance of monogamy is strong, yet relatively few individuals actually discuss with their partner what monogamy must entail.
Is online flirting with an ex you will never see again “cheating?” Is fantasizing about a celebrity lover being untrue to your One True Love?
Jealousy and suspicion are the tools
A series of studies by psychologists makes clear that we are notably inconsistent in the monogamy standards that we hold for ourselves versus those we hold for our partners. For example, we are far more lenient and tolerant in explaining our own versus our partner’s behaviour.
Those who endorse alternative approaches — such as “consensual non-monogamy” which allows for romantic or sexual relationships beyond the primary relationship, with the partner’s consent — argue that monogamous relationships are far less stable because people use jealousy, monitoring and suspicion as tools to hold their partners to this difficult standard.
Individuals in supposedly monogamous relationships are also less likely to practise safe sex when they cheat (putting their primary partner’s health at risk) than are those in consensually non-monogamous relationships. And questions arise about whether you are really practising “monogamy” if you’re exclusive but in relationship after relationship after relationship — that is, for those who change primary partners after just a few years.
Rewriting the fairytale
To discuss dealbreakers in one’s relationship, it is essential for a couple to define what constitutes a betrayal, violation of trust or act of dishonesty.
Negotiating guidelines with your partner can help you both be on the same page, about what types and expressions of connection with others are acceptable.
If a couple can plan ahead of time for the possibility than one or both partners might have an intimate moment with another person at some point, this can reinforce the flexibility, tolerance and forgiveness required to adjust if that happens.
It all depends on the circumstances, of course, but accepting that another person might offer something that we or our partners need can leave couples better-positioned to move forward and adjust or negotiate if necessary, without an entire and irreversible relationship disintegration.
This is key: If we can admit to ourselves that a fleeting attraction, or more meaningful connection, with another partner might not irreparably harm our primary relationship — and indeed might supplement it — then our relationships might survive longer and better.
A new viewpoint requires a willingness to supplant the fairytale — a belief (often cherished) that one person can forever meet all your emotional, romantic and sexual needs.
Lunch is ok, touch is out
This is unlikely to be easy for most of us. The idea of a partner being distracted by another can induce panic in the most stalwart and confident. But insisting upon a fairly unreasonable standard (lifelong exclusivity or else!) can in fact harbour the possibility of secrecy and betrayal.
Negotiate with your partner and make guidelines such as ‘Lunch is ok, touching is not.
The emphasis in relationships needs always to be on openness, caring and mutual consent.
This is not to say that you or your partner will ultimately connect intimately with another person in any way despite adopting a new viewpoint about exclusivity. It also does not mean you have to agree that “anything goes,” that your relationship becomes an open relationship in the broadest sense of that term, or that anyone at all can enter your private sphere.
It is wise to negotiate some guidelines with your partner — about who or what type of person might be invited to look in on that sphere, for a moment or longer, and what might be acceptable ways to connect with another person (e.g. lunch is okay, touch is out), should the need or want arise.
If you also discuss how best to talk about it, this approach can go far in keeping your relationship truthful, transparent and trusting — making the need for a dealbreaker that much less relevant altogether.
How can I be of assistance? Simply put, I am a man who understand the dynamics of monogamy and the challenges it presents. Because I understand, I am able to offer a place where I can be the man who fills the void in times of needs, bring that touch of excitement while keeping it simple, drama free and to a certain extend, risk free. I offer complete anonymity, flexibility, privacy and discretion. The amazing thing about Tantra is that it brings people closer together by creating a place where we can freely enjoy one another completely without fear of judgements or misplaced morality. I am here to make a place for you where you can be you and enjoy exactly what you need and feel good about it.
Not only are we visual, but we are also spiritual, social and emotional beings. We all need to socialize, meet other people, make friends and generally enjoy meeting new people. We find pleasures in discovering someone new, be it physically emotionally or otherwise. It is normal to feel this way, someone intent on connecting with us will get our chemistry going and we all have such chemistry because we are meant to enjoy it. Those who report having had an extramarital relationship say it was with a close friend, co-worker or long-term acquaintance; these tend not to be random strangers but people who brings a certain "something" that we need in that moment... whatever that "something" is.
What’s more, an act of infidelity is often understood as the “dealbreaker” in relationships. And few people are abhorred more than those known to have “cheated.” Movies, songs and literature are replete with stories depicting the appalling retribution believed owed to those who stray.
Despite all this, studies show that most people have in fact engaged in some type of infidelity in the past or have experienced a partner’s infidelity.
The question arises then: Is it time to ditch, or rethink, monogamy as a standard?
Optimistic expectations
Research shows that most people both expect romantic and sexual exclusivity to be in place very early in their relationships and that they denounce infidelity.
Is jealousy and suspicion undermining your monogamous relationship? Or is jealousy and suspicions a sign of insecurity? Despite strong universal disapproval of infidelity, and despite optimistic expectations, studies show that infidelity remains, year after year, the primary cause of relationship break-ups and divorce.
Now, if you factor in the stress, distrust and discord that even the thought of infidelity causes to those relationships it does not destroy, you begin to understand the weight of its consequences.
Fantasizing about a different lover?
Is monogamy reasonable? Can we ever reconcile the improbability of spending a lifetime (also known as many years) with a partner without ever being drawn to another?
Can we admit that our partners might not meet all of our needs at all times? That we could experience attraction to another without a complete surrender of our rights to a loving and respectful relationship or a wish to abandon our lives to race off with the other person?
These questions are more poignant in light of research indicating that intimate relationships are becoming less rewarding over time even as our expectations of what they should deliver steadily increase.
In most Western countries, belief in the importance of monogamy is strong, yet relatively few individuals actually discuss with their partner what monogamy must entail.
Is online flirting with an ex you will never see again “cheating?” Is fantasizing about a celebrity lover being untrue to your One True Love?
Jealousy and suspicion are the tools
A series of studies by psychologists makes clear that we are notably inconsistent in the monogamy standards that we hold for ourselves versus those we hold for our partners. For example, we are far more lenient and tolerant in explaining our own versus our partner’s behaviour.
Those who endorse alternative approaches — such as “consensual non-monogamy” which allows for romantic or sexual relationships beyond the primary relationship, with the partner’s consent — argue that monogamous relationships are far less stable because people use jealousy, monitoring and suspicion as tools to hold their partners to this difficult standard.
Individuals in supposedly monogamous relationships are also less likely to practise safe sex when they cheat (putting their primary partner’s health at risk) than are those in consensually non-monogamous relationships. And questions arise about whether you are really practising “monogamy” if you’re exclusive but in relationship after relationship after relationship — that is, for those who change primary partners after just a few years.
Rewriting the fairytale
To discuss dealbreakers in one’s relationship, it is essential for a couple to define what constitutes a betrayal, violation of trust or act of dishonesty.
Negotiating guidelines with your partner can help you both be on the same page, about what types and expressions of connection with others are acceptable.
If a couple can plan ahead of time for the possibility than one or both partners might have an intimate moment with another person at some point, this can reinforce the flexibility, tolerance and forgiveness required to adjust if that happens.
It all depends on the circumstances, of course, but accepting that another person might offer something that we or our partners need can leave couples better-positioned to move forward and adjust or negotiate if necessary, without an entire and irreversible relationship disintegration.
This is key: If we can admit to ourselves that a fleeting attraction, or more meaningful connection, with another partner might not irreparably harm our primary relationship — and indeed might supplement it — then our relationships might survive longer and better.
A new viewpoint requires a willingness to supplant the fairytale — a belief (often cherished) that one person can forever meet all your emotional, romantic and sexual needs.
Lunch is ok, touch is out
This is unlikely to be easy for most of us. The idea of a partner being distracted by another can induce panic in the most stalwart and confident. But insisting upon a fairly unreasonable standard (lifelong exclusivity or else!) can in fact harbour the possibility of secrecy and betrayal.
Negotiate with your partner and make guidelines such as ‘Lunch is ok, touching is not.
The emphasis in relationships needs always to be on openness, caring and mutual consent.
This is not to say that you or your partner will ultimately connect intimately with another person in any way despite adopting a new viewpoint about exclusivity. It also does not mean you have to agree that “anything goes,” that your relationship becomes an open relationship in the broadest sense of that term, or that anyone at all can enter your private sphere.
It is wise to negotiate some guidelines with your partner — about who or what type of person might be invited to look in on that sphere, for a moment or longer, and what might be acceptable ways to connect with another person (e.g. lunch is okay, touch is out), should the need or want arise.
If you also discuss how best to talk about it, this approach can go far in keeping your relationship truthful, transparent and trusting — making the need for a dealbreaker that much less relevant altogether.
How can I be of assistance? Simply put, I am a man who understand the dynamics of monogamy and the challenges it presents. Because I understand, I am able to offer a place where I can be the man who fills the void in times of needs, bring that touch of excitement while keeping it simple, drama free and to a certain extend, risk free. I offer complete anonymity, flexibility, privacy and discretion. The amazing thing about Tantra is that it brings people closer together by creating a place where we can freely enjoy one another completely without fear of judgements or misplaced morality. I am here to make a place for you where you can be you and enjoy exactly what you need and feel good about it.